Why you Feel so Insecure and How to Reverse it

Flow is the nature of life itself. Not interference. Not control.

Can I ask you a question?

What are you desiring right now?


Yes, right now, look within.

What does your heart and mind want to "make happen"?

Perhaps you want to make more money, find a life partner, discover the purpose of your life.


Perhaps you are just wanting for someone to listen to you, to understand you.

Perhaps you want to hurt someone back, who said something rude to you.

Or may be you worry about your children, or their future.

That pull you feel, towards making something happen, or not happen, is control.

We try to control because we feel insecure without it.

What if I told you, that sense of wanting to control things, is the reason things don't go the way you want them to?

What if control is what is making us insecure in the long run?


 

Why Control Creates Insecurity 

Control feels secure, but in doing so forces things.


Force is what nature respects the least.

Can you force a river into submission?

Can you control the wind?

Can you even control your own heart?

The rate at which it beats, the way your immune system works?

When we control things, it only builds resistance within, it changes nothing outside.


This resistance to the way life wants to unfold, creates insecurity, because we are fixated on one outcome. 

When we fixate on one thing, we become stuck, and life goes by.


We become heavy with mental baggage and cannot respond quickly to any challenge.


This causes, suffering, hurt, and long term insecurity.

Why Allowing Creates Security 

The way to Allowing feels insecure at first, but creates real security over time.

Allowing things to be as they are saves mental energy.

This mental energy is creative in nature.

It awakens our intuition and a solution floats up to the surface.


When you allow the problem to be, the deeper parts of your brain go to work.


The superficial part of your brain goes to rest.


When someone insults you, and you allow it, instead of losing your mind, the correct response, the right words, form on your tongue.

Remember, flow is the nature of life, not resistance, not control, not interference.

Here are 3 Ways to help you loosen the grip of Control and return to Flow :

1. Stop arguing, or proving your point.

The more you argue, the more you inflame your ego, which loves control.

Start losing arguments.

Notice how it changes nothing, or does it?

When you stop arguing, you will find they stop arguing back, and want to agree with you more.

2. Try Easy, not Hard

When working on something, whether at work, or at home, ease into it. 

Instead of tensing up and building up all this mental heaviness, breathe, let go, and slide into the work.

Start slow. Start small, Start simple.

3. Meditate, Meditate, and then Meditate some more.

If you can't sit in one place, go for a walk.

Put your music aside.

Just walk. Take in the sights, sounds and sensations.

Find that lost connection with nature which brings balance.

Reality is always just this — uncomplicated, simple things, on their way.

Let go.

The Flow has got you.